Christine and David Phillips, parents of Aine and Bella, founded Friends of Aine in 2013. Following the sudden death of their eldest daughter Aine in 2010, Christine’s and David’s focus turned to making sure that their youngest daughter Bella could flourish in spite of the trauma of losing her big sister. This led them to the Good Grief program which was one of the factors in their decision to establish a non-profit organization, The Friends of Aine Foundation in 2013. An avid volunteer in the community, Christine is working to raise awareness and advocate for children that have suffered a loss. She is the editor for child loss at bellaone.com, a member of the Elliot Hospital Pediatric Bereavement committee and a member of the National Alliance for Grieving Children.
“I serve in honor of my beautiful daughters, Aine and Bella, and for the all the silent and forgotten mourners whose story is left unheard.”
A native of England, David came to the US in 1999 as Vice President and General Manager of Publishing Solutions North America for Unisys Corporation. After expanding market coverage from North America to Europe and Latin America, he began a new career in consulting; designing and implementing strategies for clients in a variety of industrial and commercial markets.
“I serve to establish an enduring legacy of Aine that embodies her spirit, personality and kindness by supporting children like Bella so that they do not feel alone after the death of a sibling or parent.”
Joseph Bator is the Executive Vice President and Senior Lender at Primary Bank located in Bedford NH, where he is responsible for all lending and commercial banking functions of the Bank. His background in business banking and commercial real estate will be helpful as we finalize our business plan and work towards establishing a Friends of Aine Center for Grieving Children. Joe lives in Bedford with his wife and five boys.
“I serve on the board of Friends of Aine because I cannot think of anything worse than a grieving child. Any help we can give them is worth it.”
Cheryl Boyarsky joins the board after co-chairing the first Friends of Aine Gala. Her experience in sales, marketing and client service have contributed to the success of the Gala, growing the event each year. A healthy lifestyle advocate, Cheryl’s helps to bring the luxury medical spa experience to clients at Pelle Medical Spa in Manchester, NH. Cheryl has been involved with many established charitable organizations joining teams and serving on various committees to raise money for established causes and starting organizations where she sees a need. Cheryl lives in Bedford with her husband and triplet boys.
“My goal has been to set an example for my children so that they too understand the importance of giving back.”
James Flanagan is the Senior Vice President, Office of College Advancement at Saint Anselm College, Manchester, NH. Jim currently serves as a Board Member for Malden Catholic High School; Parish Council Fundraising Committee Member at Saint Elizabeth Seton Church in Bedford, NH; and Volunteer for Bedford Bobcats Special Olympics. He joins the development committee for Friends of Aine and will be working to launch our Capital Campaign. Jim lives in Bedford with his wife and two.
“I have experienced my share of loss having lost several family members, including my sister and brother-in-law. I think that it is critically important to support an organization like Friends of Aine that provides services to children who have suffered the unspeakable loss of a parent or sibling.”
Ahad Fazelat MD/MPH is a Vitreoretinal Specialist and Owner of The Medical Eye Center in Manchester, NH. He is a member of the Bedford Lions Club and Future In Sight, a non-profit serving the blind and visually impaired. Ahad joins the development committee for Friends of Aine and will be working to launch our Capital Campaign. He lives in Bedford with his wife and two children.
“As medical professionals my wife and I have witnessed someone suffer the loss of a beloved family member far too often. Bewildered and confused, families often need help to forge the path forward as the future they had imagined is irreversibly altered. The overwhelming grief the bereaved suffer is a daunting obstacle to the healing process and none are more susceptible than the children in these situations. Friends of Aine provides the ear, the shoulder, or the hand to guide these little ones through the process. This organization inspires us to become involved as it provides a clear and tangible good to those of who have suffered an unthinkable loss
Barbara LaFrance, RN, FACHE serves as our clinical expert and primary liason to Home Health & Hospice Care (HHHC) in Merrimack, NH. A member of the Senior Management team at HHHC, she oversees the Good Grief Children’s Bereavement program and Teen Topics Support Group as well as the Hospice, Palliative Care and Risk Management divisions. Barbara lives in Brookline, NH with her husband and has two grown children.
“It is a privilege to join the Friends of Aine Board of Directors, who have provided such needed support to so many grieving children and families in our community. It will be a pleasure to support their mission and continued vision for our community.”
Pam Macdonald is a founding board member who helped establish Friend of Aine as a 501(c)3 non-profit organization. A veteran of community advocacy and service, Pam serves on boards and organizations that support children and families throughout the State, including the Moore Center Family Support Council, Best Buddies of New Hampshire, the Special Education Parent Advisory Council of Bedford and the Bedford Adaptive Soccer Program. She is currently working as the Director of Program Management for a Fortune 500 Software Company and lives in Bedford with her husband and four children.
“I never had the opportunity to meet Aine, but after meeting the Phillips through Bella’s friendship with my daughter Sophia, I knew this was a very special family with a very special mission. I continue to be passionate about the mission of creating a special place for children who have lost a loved one and the desire to help those children in their grief.”
AnnMarie Smith is the proud Auntie of Aine and Bella and a founding board member. She currently works as an accountant for a CPA firm in Bow, NH and uses her bookkeeping skills and tax experience to handle the finances for Friends of Aine. Ann Marie lives in Warner, NH with her husband and has two grown sons.
“ I serve to support my sister in her time of grief and support her in creating a legacy for Aine. I would do anything for her and my skills as a bookkeeper were needed to keep track of the financial activity of the organization.”
Joseph Murray is the Vice President of Government Relations and Public Affairs for Fidelity Investments’ regional center in Merrimack, NH. He leads Fidelity’s external relations work in New Hampshire which includes government relations, community relations, and corporate philanthropy. Joe leads the development committee for Friends of Aine and is working to launch our Capital Campaign. He lives in Bedford with his wife and three children.
“Not everyone is born with the same degree of resiliency. As someone who lost his father at the age of 13, I share Friends of Áine’s goal to create a place of solace and support for New Hampshire children who are coping with loss.”
Linda Dinndorf joins us as a recently retired Lieutenant Colonel of the United States Air Force. Her background in leadership instruction will be helpful in developing training and education programs for grief counselors. Linda is an original member of the Friend of Aine Kid’s Try-athlon committee and is instrumental in running the swim portion of the race each year. She lives in Bedford with her husband and four children.
“The Friends of Aine organization is helping to fill a vital need for many families in New Hampshire who are grappling with a difficult loss and the opportunity to raise awareness and provide expanded bereavement services for children is such a worthwhile endeavor.”
Lisa Wallace is a founding board member and currently works as the Marketing Director for Primary Bank. With a background in creative direction and marketing strategy, she leads our Marketing and Communications committee. An avid volunteer for children’s programs, Lisa coaches soccer for the Bedford Athletic Club and manages a Destination Imagination Team for students at Bedford High School. She lives in Bedford with her husband and two daughters.
“We had the privilege of knowing Aine as a dear family friend. Working to create a legacy for Aine by helping other children is an honor.”
Robert Reardon joined Friends of Aine in 2017 as Chairman of the Board. Bob’s career includes various Research and Development management roles in Fortune 100 companies
followed by 30-plus years as a principal and Chief Operating Officer of TKL Research, Inc., a privately held Clinical Research Organization.
Bob served on the board of an inner-city school in Central Harlem in New York City helping to raise more than $40 million dollars and was also President of CHILD, Inc.
(Central Harlem Initiative for Learning and Development), a not-for-profit organization which raised educational funds for financially disadvantaged children of the inner-city. Bob’s management and fundraising experience is helping to drive Friends of Aine towards it’s ultimate goal of helping as many children as possible. A native of New England, Bob and his wife reside in Tenafly, NJ where they raised their three children.
“It was learning that, for the one-in-five kids who have lost a parent or sibling, there were virtually no support services to meet their profound feelings of isolation, loneliness and insecurity. With the loss of an essential anchor in their lives, kids lack the extended support
systems that most adults can depend on. Friends of Aine is now providing those services to about 50 kids and we want to multiply that number many times over.”