Our Good Grief program offers caring support to children and teens who are grieving the loss of a parent or sibling. Bereaved children are given the opportunity to develop coping skills in a safe and trusting environment
Bella shares her thoughts on how the Good Grief program helped after the loss of her sister Aine.
Swim, bike, run, fun! Registration is open for the 6th Annual Friends of Aine Kid’s TRY-athlon. Our kid’s TRY-athlon is a race for all kids ages 4 to 15, no matter their athletic ability. Post race events for children and a pancake breakfast for everyone! New this year we have prizes for the top fundraisers and top teams.
Racers, volunteers and sponsors welcome.
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Aine died on August 10, 2010. She was 8 years old. Her death was caused by a disease called Pulmonary Veno Occlusive Disease (PVOD). Although this disease is uncommon, it is imperative that people know about it as it is a cause of Pulmonary Hypertension (PH). PVOD presents medically as PH. It is thought that PVOD might be the culprit behind some cases of Idiopathic Pulmonary Hypertension. In our case, that was true.
We are writing our daughter’s story today to explain what can happen if PH goes undiagnosed. We lost our daughter but others shouldn’t. Aine was a beautiful girl who was very sick. We had spent the last year of her life (2009 to 2010) trying to sort out why she didn’t feel well, why she was so thin, why didn’t she want to eat, why she complained of not being able to get her breath. We watched her slow down physically, finding new hobbies like reading lots of books instead of riding her bike or playing soccer. She had many appointments with several doctors, specialists in the fields of gastroenterology, pulmonology, cardiology and her pediatrician. Wrongly, she was given a clean bill of health. Physically she was just fine, they told us. It’s anxiety they said. Nothing was wrong with her, she’s just anxious. Over and over again we were told this. We continually relayed to her doctors her shortness of breath with exertion and it was ignored. But they said she was ok. And we trusted them.
We know now that had these doctors looked further into just that one symptom, shortness of breath with exertion, or had the cardiologist seen her for a follow up, or had they not ignored low blood sats, or had they not labeled her with anxiety, or had the pediatrician followed up where the specialists left off, they would have found Pulmonary Hypertension. Then they could have found PVOD. A lung transplant could have saved her life if only they hadn’t ignored her.
Don’t let other kids die, too, because the medical profession ignored what was right in front of them.
(The Pulmonary Hypertension Association recognizes the month of November as Pulmonary Hypertension Awareness Month. In November 2012 PHA kicked off a 2 year campaign titled Sometimes It’s PH which emphasizes the oft misdiagnosed symptoms of PH and the lack of medical protocol to even look for PH. In support of this campaign, Aine’s Story was featured).